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1 The Path of Joy Issue 49 (Nov 2015 Feb 2016) MCI (P) 099/09/2014 Publisher : Buddhist Research Society, 2&4, Lorong 24A, Geylang, Singapore Printer : Nu-Colours Print License no: L013/10/2015. If my sickness is of benefit to living beings, let me be sick. If my death would benefit them, may I die. But if my recovery would help, may I be cured. Bless me to accept whatever happens with JOY and use it as my PATH. Gyelsay Togmay Sangpo

2 Editorial Board Religious Advisor : Venerable (Dr) Bellanwila Dhammaratana Nayaka Thero Editor : Low Chwee Beng Layout Designer : Thanakorn Jampamoon Co-ordinator : Leila Chinese Translation : Yeo Koon Teck, Liu Sheng Hua Vetting : Denise de Souza, Leila Disclaimer : The opinions expressed in this Newsletter are those of the authors and in no way represent the views of the Editor, Buddhist Library or the Buddhist Research Society. We accept no responsibility for any organisation, product, service or any other matter featured. Copyright : Copyright 2015 Buddhist Research Society. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without the written permission from the AUTHOR of the relevant item or, where there is no Author, the EDITOR. Invitation : We welcome contributions which may be edited, if accepted. Write to - The Editor, The Path of Joy, The Buddhist Library, 2 & 4, Lorong 24A, Geylang, Singapore borgorpoj@gmail.com Fax : Website : Please include name and contact details. We may publish letters of general interest, subject to editing. 2 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016)

3 Bhante Says Dealing with Boredom and Depression in a Skillful Way In August 2015, I visited an eighty-four year old monk who was warded in a hospital in Singapore. He was struggling to breathe. He could not breathe on his own and so he was put on a life support machine. As such, he could not use his nose to breathe but had to breathe through his mouth. The visit reminded me how fortunate we, healthy people, are. For example, we are able to practise breathing meditation. Mindfully breathing in and out helps us realise how vulnerable our lives are. At this point, I started thinking of my own life. Actually, about 20 or so years ago, I started a meditation centre in Sri Lanka in the hope that when I reach 70 years of age, I will be able to retire there, meditate and lead a less busy life. I find the air at Paramita International Buddhist Meditation Centre in Kandy, Sri Lanka, so fresh that when I wake up in the morning there, I am able to regain my normal energy in only about a minute or so. Here, in Singapore, it takes about 15 minutes before I get back to my normal level of energy every morning. I am not, of course, saying that there is something wrong with Singapore or that the air here is not clean. Of course, when there is a thick haze covering the sky like a blanket, as we have witnessed recently, that is a different matter. Fortunately, it is not something that happens too frequently. My decision to eventually retire at the meditation centre was thus a good decision. However, until now, at the age of 76 years, I am still unable to retire as I planned to do. So, on that day, watching that old monk with his support machine, I started to wonder how many more years I can remain healthy and able-bodied before I become like him. But this was not because I was afraid of being attached to a life support machine. Being mortal human beings, all of us have to think about our future and, if possible, prepare for our eventual demise. As the Buddha famously taught, life is constantly in a state of flux but four things are, and always will remain, constant birth, old age, sickness and death. What is more, sickness and death do not happen only to old people. Of course, I am not advocating that people adopt a negative attitude towards life. Human life is, after all, a rare opportunity and a wonderful thing indeed. But life is also very vulnerable. The human body and mind are more complex and sophisticated than any machine or computer ever invented by humankind. To make the human body and mind function well, numerous things in the body, especially the brain, have to interact properly. Yet human beings expect their bodies to function perfectly all the time. To be more realistic and wise, as the great Thai meditation teacher, Ajahn Cha, once said, we should not at all be surprised, let alone unhappy, when we get sick. The human body, as Ajahn Cha reminded his students, is as fragile as a crystal glass. The wonder therefore is not that we get sick occasionally but that we remain healthy for so long. Similarly, we have become so accustomed to being able to breathe in and out that we can breathe in and other without realising it. And we have come to expect one to follow the other automatically. POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 3

4 But if, for some reason, such as a serious illness, we have difficulty breathing in, we are no different from the unfortunate monk I visited. Then, of course, in the end, all of us will, some day, breathe out and then won t be able to breathe in. We should not avoid any thoughts of sickness and death, as most people tend to do. Doing that will not make them go away and disappear for good. What is important is that we have to try and live our lives as mindfully and as meaningfully as we can because death and illness can come at any moment to anyone, young or old, healthy or sick. One of the common health problems nowadays, especially in a hectic, materialistic and highly competitive society like Singapore is depression. Nowadays people talk a lot about depression. The most common topic of conversation used to be stress but depression has, I feel, in recent years overtaken stress or come a close second. Years ago, doctors did not pay special attention to depression. But nowadays, they do because it has become a very common problem. Another common problem is boredom. In the age of the internet, the smart phone, social media and tremendous technological advancement, people get bored very easily. When we compare these two problems, we find that boredom is more easily dealt with than depression. When we feel bored, we can do many things. We can travel, for example. Some people think that, by travelling, they can get rid of boredom. But it is probably not that easy. Others prefer to eat when they are bored. This is the easiest thing to do in Singapore because food is so easily available but that, as we all know, is a dangerous thing to do. Another thing people do to counter boredom is 4 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) to smoke and, sometimes, they get addicted. By so doing, they create more trouble for themselves. Other people visit friends and relatives to relieve their boredom. But personally, as a Buddhist monk, I find chanting a very effective way to handle boredom. In Buddhist temples, the middle-aged and old are usually the people who chant. They form chanting groups and attend funerals to chant. They especially enjoy chanting on festival days like full moon days. In a way, I can say that chanting is an indirect form of meditation and, in that way, is very beneficial not only for our spiritual development but also for our mental health provided, of course, that we know what we are chanting and we do so mindfully. Depression, on the other hand, unlike boredom, is not so easy to overcome. In a way, everyone feels depressed once in a while. When depression sets in, people generally think that by being quiet, avoiding friends and society and sitting down in a corner can be helpful. They think that lying down and sleeping may also help. The downside is that when people keep to themselves for long periods of time, this can be dangerous and sometimes lead to suicide. They should therefore seek professional assistance before things get out of hand. Generally speaking, however, in conjunction with medical treatment, where necessary, spiritual practice may also help. I am referring to meditation, in particular, mindfulness and metta (loving kindness) meditation. But we should always keep in mind that for meditation to make a difference, leading a moral life is necessary. In the Patimokkha Sutta, a certain monk went up to the Buddha and asked for advice. It would be well for me, Lord, if the Blessed One would teach me briefly a doctrine so that having heard it I might dwell alone, in seclusion, unwearied, ardent and resolute.

5 The Buddha responded, Well then, monk, you should purify the rudiments of skill. And what are the rudiments of skill? In this, monk, you must dwell restrained according to the restraint of the (monastic rules), having perfected the scope of your practice, aware of danger in the slightest faults, undertaking the precepts and training yourself in them. Having done this, then, monk, with morality as your support, established in morality, you must practice the four foundations of mindfulness. Which four? In this, monk, you must dwell in contemplation of body... feelings... mind... mind-objects, ardent, clearly aware, mindful, having got rid of worldly longing and depression. Then, monk, when, with morality as your support, established in morality, you have cultivated the four foundations of mindfulness, then you will obtain by night and by day that hoped-for increase in skilled states, which will not decline. The Buddha there was talking to a monk and hence referred to the 227 Buddhist monastic rules but the same advice would apply equally to lay people, with the exception that, of course, lay people need only observe the lay precepts, for example, the Five Precepts. are depressed have a kind of hidden anger. I once went to see a person at the request of his family members. I acceded to the request because I had known him for a long time. But when his family people told him that I had come to visit him, he immediately closed the door. He refused to talk to me and refused to open the door despite repeated requests to do so. His mother was over 80 years old and the family members were concerned that he might harm her so they called the police. After the police repeated their calls a few times, he finally opened the door. Metta bhavana is effective because meditators are taught to generate thoughts of loving kindness for themselves before generating them more generally to others like family, friends, neighbours and other sentient beings. Regular and sustained meditation practice on loving kindness helps to develop genuine kindness and compassion to all sentient beings. In this way, meditators can prevent themselves from developing antagonism or hatred towards themselves and others and even grudges which often tend to afflict depressed people. If we develop genuine feelings of metta, we won t get into that kind of situation. May all sentient beings be well and happy! However, people suffering from depression are not likely to listen to advice readily. Often they wait for depression to deteriorate to a bad level before they seek professional help or try to practise meditation, thinking that they are just tired and they thus withdraw from society. But through mindfulness meditation, they may be able to realise that they have a problem and must try to overcome it before it gets too serious. Bhante (Dr) B Dhammaratana Thero Religious Advisor Buddhist Library Reference: Patimokkha Sutta: Obligation ( SN 47.46). Translated by Maurice O Connell Walshe For example, if people become easily irritable and angry, they may be suffering from early stages of depression. If they then undertake mindfulness meditation as a daily practice they may not be so vulnerable. The possibility of them going into a desperate situation is very much less. Metta bhavana or meditation on loving kindness is also beneficial here. Why? Because people who POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 5

6 Editorial EQUANIMITY, RENUNCIATION AND AN AMAZING RETREAT Even if a monk is not skilled in the ways of the minds of others, he should train himself: I will be skilled in reading my own mind. The Buddha (Samatha Sutta: With Regard to Tranquility) In his book, Buddhism in Plain English, Zen priest, Steve Hagen, tells the simple story of a farmer, his mare and a neighbour. One day, the mare runs off. The neighbour consoles the farmer for his loss. The next day, the mare re-appears, with a herd of stallions trailing her. The neighbour congratulates the farmer. Subsequently, the farmer s son breaks a leg trying to ride the mare. The neighbour consoles the farmer again. In due course, the army visits the farmer s village to conscript soldiers. They reject the farmer s son because he is unfit. The neighbour congratulates the farmer again. Each time, the nosy neighbour consoles or congratulates the farmer, the latter simply says. Who knows what s good or bad? Hagen tells this story to drive home the point that we, ordinary folk with our conceptual, baggage-laden mind, are incapable of judging what is ultimately good or bad. cannot wash your hands and feet with ice. But if you melt the ice and turn it into water, then it can flow everywhere and you can wash your hands and feet and everything with it. When the mind stays in one place and clings to anything it is like hard ice and cannot be used freely, just as you cannot wash hands and feet with ice. To melt the mind and let it work, like flowing water, in every part of the body that is what is meant by original mind. (Takuan, quoted in Zen Buddhism, Japan by Heinrich Dumoulin) Like most stories, the story of the runaway mare can be interpreted in many different ways. An important way is that equanimity and renunciation or letting go are virtues worth cultivating if we want to experience genuine happiness happiness that does not depend on external factors. A story from the Pali Canon illustrates this perfectly. Kisagotami was the mother of a young child who had died. She carried her dead child in her arms from place to place, desperately looking for someone who could bring it back to life. The neighbour represents ordinary folk like us with our discriminating, conceptual, deluded mind likened in Zen to ice. The farmer represents an enlightened being whose original mind, pliant and free, is likened in Zen to water. The original mind flows like water and does not stay in one spot while the deluded mind is like ice. You 6 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016)

7 Eventually, she met the Buddha who promised to do just that. But first he wanted her to bring him some mustard seeds - the cheapest of the commonly available spices in ancient India - but they must be mustard seeds obtained from a house in which no death had occurred. Of course, as we all know, Kisagotami failed in her mission but, in the process, as the Buddha intended, her desperate, exhausting and hopeless search led to a catharsis and she realised that death was a natural, universal phenomenon. Everyone had to die, not just her precious baby. Having come to her senses, she buried her dead child and requested the Buddha to ordain her. In due course, as the Zen master would have put it, ice melted into water and she became an arahant. Talking about the mind, some months ago, I attended a shamatha meditation retreat at Phor Kark See Monastery. Three hundred retreatants were taught, and practised, shamatha meditation every day for seven days in the cool comfort of a huge, air-conditioned hall with excellent acoustics, temporarily safe from the thick haze that smothered the air outside. Led by meditation master, scholar, translator and mind science pioneer, Dr B Alan Wallace, the retreat was a truly amazing experience. To begin with, it was a shamatha, and not a vippasana, retreat. As Alan took pains to point out, shamatha is a crucial, even indispensable, part of the Buddhist spiritual path. The Noble Eightfold Path, after all, comprises three component parts - ethics, concentration (attainable via shamatha meditation) and wisdom (attainable via vippasana) and not just two. from different Buddhist traditions, in particular, the Pali Canon and Tibetan Buddhist texts. And he did this in a highly systematic, pragmatic, and comprehensive manner, backing each and every assertion he made about the practice with quotes from authoritative Buddhist texts from various Buddhist sources. Nevertheless, from the start, Alan stressed, repeating the message several times, that shamatha meditation is not in essence a religious undertaking. While it forms an essential part of the Buddhist spiritual path, there is nothing uniquely Buddhist about it. The Buddha, in fact, as a young prince and later as a recluse before his enlightenment, studied and practised shamatha meditation under the leading sages of his time. Not only that, similar meditation techniques can be found in the Christian, Muslim, Hindu and other traditions. And, as if to prove the point, there were several non-buddhists among our group. Most importantly, Alan gave us a clear roadmap of the nine stages that comprise the shamatha journey, indicating where we were at the start and where we needed to go to achieve attentional balance at the end, complete with signposts and landmarks that characterise the various stages along the way. To get some idea of the big picture, giving a before and after effect, here are a couple of extracts from Alan s book Balancing the Mind which describe the first and ninth stages. Uniquely - for a meditation retreat - Alan taught us not one but three different methods of shamatha meditation mindfulness of breathing, settling the mind in its natural state and awareness of awareness - based on texts drawn POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 7

8 Directed or focused attention (stage one) The accomplishment of the first (stage) corresponds to the initial fixing of the attention upon the meditative object (I)n this early phase of the training it seems as if the mind is exceptionally cluttered with compulsive ideation. In fact, one is simply recognizing, perhaps for the first time, how congested the mind normally is with rambling thoughts; for when the attention is directed outwards, frequently shifting from one object to another, one simply does not notice how agitated the mind is. Attentional balance (stage nine) At the ninth (stage) due to the strength of habitual mindfulness and introspection, effort no longer needs to be applied to sustain the attention with stability and clarity upon its object; and laxity and excitation no longer arise, even though no effort is exerted to recognize or counteract them. The thing that struck me most about shamatha meditation was the pervasive role played by equanimity and renunciation, running through all the stages of the training from beginning to end like a golden thread. The challenge is to egolessly attend closely to the breath, then the mind, then awareness, freeing oneself from the addiction of doing. (Soothing the Body, Settling the Mind, and Illuminating Awareness - B. Alan Wallace.) In the initial stages, we are taught, and constantly reminded, to let go of thoughts and sensations that invariably populate our monkey minds as we try to focus on the meditative object. Subsequently, the role of equanimity and letting go expands. As a result of the skillful, sustained cultivation of quiescence, one eventually achieves a degree of meditative equipoise in which the mind is temporarily, effortlessly free of the hindrances of laxity and excitation. As the power of mindfulness and 8 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) introspection gradually increases through this training, one becomes increasingly accustomed to mental balance and the degree of effort needed to sustain and further improve this quality of attention gradually decreases. When the tip of laxity and excitation has been shattered, that is, when the mind is no longer prone to these hindrances, it is essential to release the effort that had previously gone to counteracting them. At this point, if one continues to exert the same amount of effort as before, this impedes further progress, for it agitates the mind. But if one prematurely stops exerting effort, this, too, impedes progress, for laxity would be bound to set in. The key to knowing how much to ease off is this: decrease effort only to the extent that the intensity and clarity of attention is not sacrificed. The equanimity that arises due to such habituation is characterized by mental balance that is free of excitation and laxity; tranquility in which the mind rests in its own nature without compulsively grasping onto objects; natural effortless engagement with one s meditative object; and functionality, or fitness of the attention such that it can be employed at will. Finally, after the long and arduous journey, as the meditator reaches the goal of achieving shamatha, the most difficult test along the journey awaits them not becoming attached to the bliss that arises at this stage for this will hinder progress to the next stage towards liberation - vippasana. And then, with the wisdom realised in vippasana, the ice will melt into water, as it did for Kisagotami. But not before that. Because, as Alan reminded

9 us repeatedly in the retreat, nothing along the shamatha journey, including the attainment of shamatha itself (as opposed to the attainment of insight in vippasana), is irreversible. BL EVENT At the end of the retreat, we made repeated requests to Alan to come back to Singapore to teach us again. A focused mind is always an asset, no less in the mundane world than in a monastery. Besides, the huge hall in the amazing monastery where our group was fortunate enough to be able to meditate has the capacity to accommodate lots more retreatants. As always, I wish you pleasant reading. Editor Chwee Beng References: Buddhism Plain and Simple by Steve Hagen. Samatha Sutta: With Regard to Tranquility (AN 10.54). Translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu Zen Buddhism, Japan by Heinrich Dumoulin. Soothing the Body, Settling the Mind, and Illuminating Awareness by B. Alan Wallace. All quotes reproduced in this editorial without sources indicated have been extracted from Balancing the Mind: CHENG BENG DAY, 2015 Date: Apr 5, 2015 Venue: BL Auditorium Photo Credit: Koon Teck A Tibetan Buddhist Approach to Refining the Mind by B. Alan Wallace. See also The Attention Revolution: Unlocking the Power of the Focused Mind by B. Alan Wallace BL EVENT ULLAMBANA DAY, 2015 Date: Aug 16, 2015 Venue: BL Auditorium Photo Credit: Koon Teck POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 9

10 BL EVENT BUDDHIST LIBRARY CHARITY GOLF 2015 Date: September 4, 2015 Venue: Raffles Country Club, Lake Course Photo Credit: Yew Beng 10 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016)

11 BOOK REVIEW Meditation on Perception by Bhante Henepola Gunaratana Published by Wisdom Publications (139 pages) Reviewer: Evelyn Goh It has taken me ages to do this book review but not because this book is a drag. On the contrary, it is such a treasure trove rightly so, of course - that I felt the need to digest every word, every line properly before I would deem it fit for me to comment on its content, style, merit - essentially the nuts-and-bolts of a book review. Without doubt, the venerated Bhante Gunaratana - author of Mindfulness in Plain English - has done it again. This book is, in fact, a complete meditation programme that would make a sequel seem irrelevant. A skilful writer and a veteran spiritual teacher, his wisdom and compassion shine from every page and even lit up a little lamp within me just as I was going through an emotionally draining period, and to top it all, a health scare. Poring over this book was nothing short of game changing for me. What a huge relief it was to realise that we are all in a state of collective hallucination. We, the unenlightened ones, that s statistically more than 99.9% of us, are not seeing things as they really are. Governed by our ignorance, defined elsewhere as mis-knowing, rather than not-knowing, the Buddha had this to say of us in the Distortions of the Mind Sutta ( Vipallasa Sutta ) - Sensing no change in the changing, Sensing pleasure in suffering, Assuming self where there s no self, Sensing the un-lovely as lovely Gone astray with wrong views, Beings misperceive with distorted minds and suffer endlessly in the oscillation between attachment and aversion. To begin with, this book is neatly divided into three parts. The first part explores how perception works, followed by the difference between distorted and purified perception. The second part examines in detail the ten perceptions based on Girimananda Sutta. The last part of this book focuses on the meditation on perception, literally a practical guide on insight meditation. Behind the Girimananda Sutta lies a fascinating story. Upon the instructions of the Buddha, Venerable Ananda taught the ten perceptions to a gravely ill Venerable Girimananda, who regained his health after listening to and reflecting on them. It was surmised in the book that Venerable Girimananda s illness was related to rigidity and tension caused by holding distorted views concerning the self. It comes as no surprise that these ten perceptions are also known as the ten healing perceptions. Besides being an extremely therapeutic and spiritually-rewarding book, it is also absolutely mind-blowing to learn that all attributes like beauty or ugliness that we ascribe to objects or people are strictly personal and artificial. They are the result of our own conceptual proliferation, which is in turn based on our stored memories of previous experiences. This is no better testimony than this to the old adage, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, nothing beyond that. With this realisation, we are also POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 11

12 able to understand why one man s food is another man s poison. There is no room for conflict as a result. One phrase in the book that particularly resonates with me is the part when the Buddha said we would be disappointed with suffering. What it really means is that any person who enjoys pleasure enjoys suffering since whatever we find pleasurable would eventually change to suffering. All conditioned things are impermanent. If you re not convinced, try sharing an apartment with your best friend. Knowing that the stampede of change cannot be stopped motivates us to redouble our efforts to develop insight into the nature of reality so as to free ourselves from the high-security prison of samsara. Having penetrated into the nature of reality, our life becomes, as the Buddha said, like the untraceable path of birds in the sky. All that remains is freedom. These profound contents are expressed in plain English. No one is going to get lost in the jungle of language and miss the treasure. Allow me to quote this Latin phrase, Si vis pacem, para bellum, which means if you desire peace, prepare for war. Indeed, wage a war against our own afflictive emotions of attachment, aversion and delusion with the powerful weapon of mindful attention. There are no foes greater than these afflictive emotions. Follow the step-by-step guide in the book earnestly and you will attain final, perfect peace i.e. nibbana. Bhante Gunaratana makes the point that Girimananda Sutta is not a faith-healing system but a truth healing system. However, judging from the detailed description of the stages of meditation all the way to enlightenment, this book reinforces the fact that all the precious teachings of the Buddha are a result of direct meditative experiences. Therefore, this book is unquestionably both a faith-healing and truth-healing system for me. Not to mention body-healing. The specialist who saw me concluded that my health scare was in all likelihood due to stress... thankfully, just another example of a psychosomatic problem. I would like to conclude my review with this beautiful stanza from another sutra: Of all the medicines in the world Manifold and various There is none like the medicine of Dharma. Therefore, O monks, drink of this. Having drunk this Dhamma medicine, You will be ageless and beyond death, Having developed and seen the truth, You will be quenched, free from craving. May you be well and happy. Reference: Vipallasa Sutta: Distortions of the Mind (AN 4.4). Translated by Andrew Olendzki Girimananda Sutta: To Girimananda (AN 10.60). See the translation by Thanissaro Bhikkhu at an10/an than.html 12 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016)

13 说到心, 几个月前我参加了一个在光明山普觉禅寺的奢摩他禅七 三百名禅修者七天内, 每日都在舒适的空调大殿里学习奢摩他禅修, 暂时避过了外头的烟雾 这项绝妙的禅修班是由禅师, 学者, 翻译, 和心智科学权威 Dr.B Alan Wallace 教授所带领 这是一项奢摩他禅修而非毗婆舍那禅修 Alan 用心的指出奢摩他禅修和佛教修行之路的密切关系和重要性 说到底, 八正道讲究的是戒, 定 ( 能从奢摩他禅修修得 ), 慧 ( 能从毗婆舍那禅修修得 ) 是三项修行, 而不只是两项而已 这个禅修的特别之处是 Alan 教了不止一种, 而是三种不同的奢摩他禅修方法 - 观呼吸, 把心定在自然的状态, 和注意自己的意识 这些法门都是从不同佛教传承的经文, 尤其是巴利文经典和藏传佛教的经文所取出 他用了极高系统化, 务实, 和全面性的方式, 针对他的每一句话和不同权威的佛教经文来支持他的论文 与此同时, 从一开始 Alan 就不断的重复奢摩他禅修并不是一种宗教信仰 虽然它是佛教修行的一个关键部分, 但它却不是专属佛教的修行 其实佛陀在他悟道之前, 还是个王子及修行者的时候, 向很多圣人拜师时也学习过奢摩他禅修 不仅如此, 相似的禅修方法也在基督教, 回教, 印度教和其他宗教能找到 这个禅修营里也有几位非佛教徒, 就好像在证明这一点 最重要的是,Alan 给了我们一个详细的路线图, 分为九个阶段, 让我们知道自己现在今在哪里和应该到哪去 这个路线图也包括了路标和地标, 让我们知道不同的阶段有着怎么样的现象 为了让你对整个大纲有些概念, 以下是一些从 Alan 的书 Balancing the Mind 所抽出来的短文, 讲述关于第一和第九的阶段, 让你有一个 之前 和 之后 的对照 直接关注或专注 ( 第一阶段 ) 成就第一阶段在于把开始的注意力放在禅修的对象 在这个早期的训练阶段, 心像是有很多杂念 其实, 我们只是第一次认清楚心 心一般就有这么多杂念的 而当注意力指向, 或移至另一样事物时, 我们才不会发现心是多么的焦急的 注意平衡 ( 第九阶段 ) 在第九阶段, 因为习惯了正念和内观, 已经无需费力而能长期保持稳定和清澈的注意一样事物 松懈和兴奋不再升起, 甚至无需费力就能认知或放下它 让我惊讶的是泰然处之和出离心在奢摩他禅修里是无处不在, 有如金丝从头到尾缠绕着训练的各个阶段 其中的挑战是无我的观呼吸, 然后观心, 然后观注意力, 最终释放自己 行 的习惯 Soothing the Body, Settling the Mind, and Illuminating Awareness -B. Alan Wallace 在初学时, 我们经常被教导要专注在禅定的对象并且放下会迷惑我们的念头和五蕴 接着, 泰然处之和出离心的角色就会膨胀 由于长期的禅定, 人们会逐渐的达到一个心暂时解脱松懈和兴奋的境界 当正念和内观的修行逐渐增长时, 人们会渐渐的习惯心里平衡, 而需要维持和增加这种禅定素质的力量也慢慢减少了 当松懈和兴奋的顶端被突破时, 心就不再被这些阻碍影响 重点在于释放之前用来抵消松懈和兴奋的那股力量 这时, 如果用之前那股力量来修行会影响进度, 因为这对心念太过刺激 但如果人们在突破之前停止训练, 松懈又会升起 所以必须知道需要卸掉多少力量, 适当的减少力量达至强度和注意力的清澈度不被牺牲 泰然处之是因习惯心里平衡也就是没有兴奋和松懈, 心安于自性而不执著, 自然的与禅修对象结合, 直至注意力能随意的运用 最后, 经过这阶段遥远又艰辛的旅程, 禅修者在达成奢摩他之前, 将面临一项最困难的考验, 那就是不执著这个阶段所享有的福佑, 因为这会影响下一个阶段 毗婆舍那 的开悟 然后, 从毗婆舍那参透智慧时, 冰便会融化成水, 就像发生在 Kisagotami 身上一样 但这现象不会在之前发生 因为 Alan 在这个禅修重复的提醒我们, 在达成奢摩他的这段旅程前, 包括达成奢摩他本生都是会还原的 禅修到了尾端, 我们不断的要求 Alan 再次回来新加坡教导我们 一颗坚定的心无论在俗世或寺院都是有用的 再说, 这座庄严的寺院大殿还能够容纳更多像我们这样有福气的修行者 一如既往, 我希望您阅读愉快 Chwee Beng 编辑 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 13

14 主笔言论 泰然处之, 出离心和一个奇妙的禅修 即使和尚未能观他人心, 也该训练自己 我能观自心 佛陀 奢摩他 在这本书里, 禅师史蒂夫哈根 Steve Hagen 描述了一个简单的故事关于一个农夫, 他的马和他的邻居 有一天, 农夫的马逃跑了 他的邻居便安慰他 第二天, 农夫的马又出现了 而且还有一批马跟在它身后 农夫的邻居便恭喜他 后来, 农夫的儿子在骑马的时候摔断了腿 农夫的邻居又再安慰他 不久, 军队到了农夫的村庄招兵 因为他儿子的伤势而没有被招揽 邻居又再恭喜农夫 每一次多管闲事的邻居安慰或恭喜农夫时, 农夫都只回答 谁知道这是好事还是坏事? 哈根说这故事的重点是想让我们这些充满杂念的凡人, 是没有办法分辨到底什么是好坏 农夫的邻居代表我们这些凡夫一样, 充满着歧视, 概念和妄想的心灵, 有如禅所描述的冰 农夫代表开悟者, 拥有那份 初心, 自在, 有如禅所描述的水 在一处时 ( 执著 ), 它就象冰一样沾在东西上而不能随意使用, 就如你不能用冰洗手脚一样 融化心才能用心, 有如流水, 流到身体的每一处, 这就是 初心 (Takuan, 取自于日本佛教禅宗, Heinrich Dumoulin) 逃跑的马之故事就像其他的故事一样, 有很多种译法 重点是泰然处之和出离心或 放下 是我们寻求真正快乐时所要值得培养的美德 - 快乐不是依靠外来的因素所得的 巴利经典有个故事充分的说明这点 Kisagotami 是一个失去孩子的母亲 她抱着去世的孩子到处奔波, 情急的寻找一个能把她孩子起死回生的人 最终, 她遇见答应帮她的佛陀 条件是她得从一户人家, 从来没有死过人的, 讨一些芥末种子 ( 芥末种子是古印度时最便宜和常见的香料 ) 众所周知 Kisagotami 没能完成这项任务 但在过程中, 就如佛陀之意, 她在情急, 焦虑和绝望的搜索时悟出了死亡是自然现象 每个人都得死, 她的宝贝孩子也不例外 初心似水不会逗留在一处而妄想似冰 你不可以用当她回过神后, 便埋葬她的孩子并要求佛陀为她冰来洗手脚 但当你把冰融化成水后, 它就会流到四剃度 有如禅师所说, 当时机成熟时冰便会融化处, 而你就能用它来洗手脚或是洗任何东西 当心留成水, 之后她也证到阿罗汉果 14 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016)

15 当我们感到无聊时, 可以做很多事情 举个例子, 我们可以去旅游 有些人认为旅游能解闷 但并不是那么简单的 有些人无聊时就想要吃东西 在新加坡, 这是件很容易做到的事 因为美食在新加坡到处都有 当然, 我们也知道这么做对身体健康有害的 人们因解闷, 而做的另外一件事就是抽烟 有时, 他们也会抽上瘾 这么一来, 他们只是给自己找更多的麻烦 其他的人就会去探望亲戚朋友来解闷 我个人而言, 生为一个和尚, 我觉得念经是一个很有效的解闷方法 在佛堂里, 通常都是中老年人在念经 他们组成念经团, 到处参加葬礼结缘念经 他们特别喜欢在佛教节日如农历十五的时候念经 一方面, 我可以说念经是一种间接性的禅修 它不仅对精神发展很有益, 对我们的心理健康也很有帮助 当然, 念经时我们需要保持正念和知道自己在念什么 另一方面, 忧郁症不像无聊那么容易克服 一般而言, 人们时不时都会感到忧郁 当忧郁降临时, 人们多数都想要静一静, 避开朋友和社会, 觉得坐在一个角落会有帮助 他们认为躺下或睡觉也有帮助 然而, 当人们自我封闭太长一段时间时, 这举动可能会导致自杀的危险 他们应该在情况还没恶化之前就寻求专业辅导 总的来说, 配合药物治疗, 适当的精神训练是有帮助的 我指的精神训练是禅修, 更具体的说是正念禅修和慈爱禅修 但我们要记得若要使禅修有帮助, 我们得过着有道德的人生 在 波羅提木叉 经里, 有个和尚向佛陀请教 这将对我很好, 如果世尊会教我简单的教条, 这样在听到它时, 我可能独居, 隐居, 孜孜不倦, 保持热忱的和坚定 佛陀回答说 : 那好吧, 和尚, 你应该净化技能的基础 什么是技能的基础? 在此, 和尚, 你必须根据 ( 寺院规则 ) 的约束限制, 在修行范围完美的修持, 意识到丝毫的错误都会有危险, 遵守戒律和训练自己 这样做之后, 那么, 和尚, 以道德为你的支柱, 成立于道德, 你必须修习正念的四个基础 是哪四个? 在此, 和尚, 你必须住在身体... 感情... 心中... 心中对象, 热心, 清醒地意识到, 铭记沉思, 已经摆脱了世俗的渴望和抑郁症 然后和尚, 当以道德为你的支柱时, 成立于道德, 你已经养成正念四个基础, 那么你会在夜间和白天都希望增加技能状态, 永不下降 虽然佛陀以上的对话是与和尚谈关于佛教的二百二十七章寺院规则, 同样的忠告也可以被在家佛弟子采纳 当然, 在家佛弟子只需受在家戒律, 比如受五戒 可是, 得忧郁症的人大多不愿听从劝告 通常他们都要等到忧郁症恶化后才会寻求专业帮助或禅修, 以为自己只是累了而脱离社会 但通过正念禅修, 他们能发现自己有问题并且会在恶化之前想办法解决 举个例子, 如果人们容易感到焦虑不安和心浮气躁, 他们可能已经患有早期的忧郁症 如能够每天训练正念禅修就不会那么脆弱了 他们堕落的可能性也会大幅度减少 培育慈悲或慈爱禅修在这里也很有益处 为什么呢? 因为忧郁的人都有一种隐藏的嗔心 我曾一户家庭的邀求而去探望一个人 我答应他们的邀求因为我认识那个人很久了 不过当他家人告诉他我来探望他时, 他立刻关上门 无论怎么要求他也不肯开门跟我说话 他的母亲是个八十多岁的妇人, 所以家人担心她会被伤害而报警 警察重复的警告后他才肯开门 慈爱禅修是个有效的方法因为禅修者学习如何先对自己生起慈爱之心, 然后再把慈爱廻向给家人, 朋友, 亲戚, 和其他众生 持之以恒的慈爱禅修能帮助众生开发真诚的慈悲心 这样一来, 禅修者可以避免自己产生对抗或仇视自己和他人, 甚至记仇 如果我们产生真诚的慈爱感觉, 我们就不会陷入这种状态 祝愿所有众生幸福快乐! 达摩拉哒那法师 宗教顾问 佛教图书馆 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 15

16 达摩拉哒那法师开示 用善巧的方法应付无聊与忧郁症 我在 2015 年八月时去新加坡的一所医院探望了一名八十四岁的老和尚 他呼吸困难, 不能自己呼吸, 只得靠氧气机维持 因此, 他不能用鼻子呼吸而得靠嘴巴呼吸 这一趟提醒了我健康的人是多么幸福的 打个比方, 我们可以练习呼吸禅修 意识自己的呼吸能让我们明白生命是多么脆弱的 与此同时, 我开始回顾自己的一生 其实, 早在二十多年前, 我在斯里兰卡办了一个禅修中心, 目的是为了在七十岁的时候, 能在那里退休, 打坐和过着平淡的生活 我觉得斯里兰卡, 康提帕拉米塔中心的空气非常清新 促使我能在早上睡醒后的一分多钟内完全恢复原来的精神 但在新加坡, 我得需要十五分钟才能恢复每天早上应有的精神 当然, 我不是指新加坡有什么问题或是空气不干净 的确, 近来我们也见证一层浓雾像被子般笼罩着整片天空, 这又是另外一回事 幸好, 这种事件不常发生 我觉得在帕拉米塔中心退休是个好决定 但是, 我虽然已经七十六岁了, 至今也未能如愿以偿 所以, 那天当我看着老和尚靠着氧气机时, 我开始怀疑自己在变成他之前, 还能享受几年的健康体魄 这并不是因为我害怕需要用到氧气机 生为凡人, 多数的人都会为将来设想, 可能的话, 也会准备自己的丧事 有如佛陀曾经教导过, 人生无常, 只有生, 老, 病, 死是不变的 况且, 病和死不仅发生在年长者 当然, 我不是在提倡人们对人生采纳悲观思想 再怎么说, 人生是难得和宝贵的 但生命也是很脆弱的 人的身心是比任何人类所发明的机器或电脑还要 16 POJ 49 (Nov Feb 2016) 复杂和微妙的 要使身心运作顺畅, 很多身体的器官, 特别是脑子要清醒 但是人们总是以为自己的身体应该无时无刻都完美在运作 以智慧和逻辑来看, 就如泰国的禅师阿姜查曾说过, 我们不应该因为生病而感到意外或不高兴 禅师阿姜查提醒他的学生, 人的身体就有如水晶一般脆弱 我们不应该感到疑惑为什么偶尔会生病, 而是健康为什么能保持这么久 同样的, 我们习惯了呼吸, 导致呼吸时已经没有意识了 也把呼吸列为理所当然的事 但是因某种原因, 比如病重, 我们将会如我所探望的那位不幸和尚一样, 有呼吸困难 然后, 终有一天我们也只能呼气而不能吸气 领悟了这一点, 与其像多数人一样, 以为不去想它就不会发生, 避开生病和死亡的念头 重要的是我们应该积极的面对人生, 保持正念, 尽量活的有意义 ; 因为病魔和死亡随时会发生在任何人身上, 无论他是年幼或年长, 健康与否 忧郁症是一个常见的健康问题, 特别会发生在像新加坡这样一个繁忙, 物质主义和强烈竞争的社会里 近来, 人们常把忧郁症挂在嘴边 以前人们常聊的话题是压力 但我觉得近年来, 忧郁症已经取代或是成了第二个主要的话题 几年前, 医生都不重视忧郁症 但现在忧郁症已经成了一种很普遍的问题 另外一个很普遍的问题是无聊 在网络的年代, 智慧型手机, 社交媒体和高科技的推动之下, 人们容易感到无聊 当比较这两个问题时, 我们发现无聊是比忧郁症还要容易应付的